To Trizzy (stay close)

In response to: 1 in the same ~ I'm so glad you're playing...TRUTH?? O.k. ~ what is the oldest woman that you've dated, and what was the main difference (sexually, conversationally, emotionally) btwn her and the ladies your age? (yeah...so I gave you a double-whammy, but you love ME, right??)

I dont hide my affection for older women, I have had several encounters with them but I am hard pressed to remember actually dating one.
I guess I'll tell you how it started.....My suite mates's mom would visit him alot due to the fact she worked on campus, our first meeting happened when I busted into the bathroom without knocking and she was in there changing clothes to go to a second job she had, I stumbled and bumbled my way out and back into my room only to have her follow me out topless telling me not to worry about it and attempting to talk to my nervous ass......weeks later I am in my romm chillin when there was a knock on the bathroom side of the door, I go to open it and to see Ms. Grier (she actually favored Pam Grier) on the opposite side. She said she came over to apologize for shocking the hell out me a few weeks back...I was like "cool" , "no problem".... I did let her know that I had no problem seeing her in that element and I realized that she didnt seem shy about it. We talk a little more about this and that, where we were from, and then the world got smaller....I found out she knew my Dad, and that my Dad actually had tried to get with her back in the day !! Long story short I started running into her on a regular basis on campus...and finally got the nerve to step my game up and aproach this WOMAN... I asked her out, she proceeds to tell me how cute she thought that was, leading up to what I thought was going to be a thanks but no thanks type of moment, as I dropped my head and started walking away she asks me how are we gonna go out if you dont know where I live... Fast forward to the weekend I get to her spot about 9:30, she says she wants to stay in and just drink and talk, I was cool with that since my pockets were thin... we drank Hennessey for hours...one thing lead to another and BAM!! She took your boy to places that I had never known existed, oral (girls my age wouldnt do that) from the back (girls my age werent comfortable enough to go there) I felt like I was in a porno movie....

So to answer Trish's second question at the time the biggest difference was sex... the older women knew what they wanted and how to ask for it, there was no beating around the bush, just straight to it, and boy was "it" good... I still dont discriminate against age (I am 28 so.....45 or 46 is my cutoff)but I do find myself talking to younger women these days (younger being 25 to 26)
Emotionally things are not that different, older women are usually more stable financially but that is not a big thing with me, I am able to hold my own conversationally so that is not a problem either.
Dont get me wrong I dont go out looking for older women it is generally just whomever I vibe with.. Thanks Trish for giving me something to post... Good Stuff...1