I Finally Figured It Out....(I think)

After all of these years... I have been hearing my family talk about how my sorry ass grandfather has a mistress and how wrong that is and how strong and enduring my grandmother is for staying with her man inspite of. I had formed my opinion of my grandfather long ago when he stopped speaking to me because I started dating his mistresses niece and ended up being on his turf alot (I think he did a cartwell when we broke up)...Nevertheless I never stopped to think that maybe he has a reason to do what he does. And after years of debate the jury is in !! Turns out the negro has had a reason all along. During a recent visit to my country home I ran into an older lady that claimed she recognized me and that she was my Aunt, I told her I was positive that I didnt know her and then I told her who my dad and grand-parents were....she proceeds to tell me that she knows what they tell me but do I want to hear the truth...I'm like WTF (cue dramatic music)... She tells me that my grand mother had an affair years ago with her brother and from that fling my dad was conceived (I always thought my dad didnt look like his dad but what the hell I dont look like my dad.. big deal). Then this woman tells me to question my youngest aunt about who HER father is....at this point I am about ready to dismiss this old broad and tell her to get out of my bidness, but 1 has to respect his elders. I call my aunt and tell her about the event that popped off and she tells me (shortned version) that out of 6 kids only 2 belong to the man that I call "grandfather" (more dramatic music)....I can see how over the years an affair may pop off but GOTDAMN how you go and have 4 kids by 3 other Africans and expect to keep a faithful husband ?? So now I see why my Grandma dont say shit when someone on the usher board tells her that they saw Mista (my granfather) and Ceily (his mistress) together at the grocery store, Hell I guess after all of these years He just dosen't give a Monkey's Ass what people say, shit look at what he's done over the years. Raise 4 kids that are the products of infidelity, and attempt to show some signs of a decent marriage, I applaud him for that. But my question is WHY STAY TOGETHER !! Finally I figured out why my grandma dont say shit, 'cause she can't........ I need to ask my Mom why dont I look like my Dad (What do ya'll think)
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(I also need to ask Ceily's niece why she broke it off with me. I'd bet my playa hating ass grndfather had something to do with that...I'm still trying to figure all of this shit out)